Has the initial period of love and bliss started to wear off from your married life? Have you thought; maybe one of the reasons behind this is that you are not really making efforts to make your husband happy?
To ensure that your bond remains strong and your relationship keeps sailing smoothly, there are ways to keep not only yourself happy but also, your partner. It’s always better to keep him happy, instead of dealing with an unhappy husband which in the process can make your married life miserable.
There are plenty of ways to make your husband feel loved, but it is important to make sure that you know him inside and out so that your efforts can count and make a valuable contribution to your marriage.
To keep your marriage exciting and fresh, below are the 5 ways to make your husband happy and to make your marriage prosper in the best manner possible.
1. Dress up especially for him
Everyone wants to look their best in front of their partner; you should keep this in mind. Make an effort to dress nicely even if there is no occasion and you are just going to the mall or grocery shopping.
Sometimes to pop things up, make him attracted towards you, and to let him know that you have groomed yourself just for him. How do you know your husband is happy? You just know that when he can’t take his eyes off you.
2. Work on the romance
After years of marriage, romance usually takes a back seat because of all the responsibilities of life. This is understandable but you must always try to keep the love and romance alive in your marriage, then only you both will feel connected and make your bond stronger with time.
If you want to ensure your husband is happy and satisfied, light those candles when he is back from work, plan on home decor and travel together. Stay in bed late on Sundays, binge-watch on Netflix, or just go for a late-night walk and make sure to hold hands. All these gestures will indeed make your husband happy and elated.
3. Give priority to sex life
When the family responsibility increases and you have kids to look after, then usually you tend to forget about the sexual needs of your man and you do not give priority to your sex life. If you are in a joint family, keeping romance alive can be challenging.
Remember, it is not like your man needs your physical proximity at all times, but keeping your sex life interesting and happening will go a long way in making your relationship worth it.
It could be just a peck on the cheeks or a fiery session between the sheets. But make him feel you want it.
4. Appreciate him for anything he does for you
Small or big-whatever he does for you, appreciate it. Even if you say a simple ‘thank you that will be enough for him. He would love to hear words of affirmation from you now and again because it shows that you are noticing the efforts he is making to keep you happy.
5. Do not shy away from expressing your love
Occasionally, kiss him, hug him or cuddle with him. Sometimes, you can even send lovey-dovey text messages to him to make his day special. Sending him videos of songs special to both of you can be another way of expressing your love for him. Let him know that you are happy being married to him and you love him a lot.